Today acquaintances through the Internet - business usual. They possess conclusive advantage: you can learn the person before will start to meet it. But the same anonymity generates also the basic problem: how to be saved from a possible deceit? When my life has turned to the novel with the monitor, I have decided to carry out monitoring among a virtual man's half to find as much as possible "ways not to be deceived". Here some of them, but - really operating are resulted only:

1. As a rule, the deceiver probes soil, checking, whether you are capable to be bought on its promises. The potential knight in an armour on all questions answers in the affirmative and inspires trust, admiring with fragility, feminity and beauty of the interlocutor which accepts pair of romantic phrases for a vow of fidelity to a coffin then suddenly completely disappears as soon as similar "game in the Prince" will bore.

Therefore: it is not necessary to finish thinking for it! It is better to ask again once again, that he meant. After all doing of a fly of the elephant, many women absolutely lose during such moments soil underfoot and cease to perceive valid adequately.

2. , as they say, to own a situation, it is better to ask more than the interlocutor, than to tell about itself. Thus, it can "get" from you information, having taken advantage of it in "right moment" less. Certainly, there is no in the world of a subject of more noteworthy, than you! Hence, and you will consider as its most worthy applicant if it not begins to load you stories about itself(himself). However it is a favorite method of virtual liars!

Therefore: do not forget to set questions and attentively to read answers. If it gets off general phrases is an alarm signal …

3. Your heart misses a bit, when you read, that there was no which could understand and grow fond of it. Yes, probably, you can become its unique and unique, present woman of its dream. But is much more true, that behind similar statements the loser who has never made efforts disappears simply complexing normally to be explained to associates.

There is also other party of such approach - many deceivers use a psychological method of display of the weakness that in the woman parent instincts of guardianship and care of the little man of the dream have leapt. However it too only a method which allows to gain the girl capable to compassion and understanding.

Therefore: As soon as in reply to your questions on its interests, plans, employment, hobbies there are more than two "anybody me does not understand", "it all the same is necessary for nobody", safely erase it from the notebook.

4. You have noticed suddenly, what all his letters are sent in working hours … In what business? There is nothing to be engaged on service? Houses are not present the Internet? Or there behind it the jealous wife looks? It is necessary to find out at once this situation that there were no further problems.

Therefore: Agree with it to chat in the evening, having referred to shortage of time to communicate virtually in working hours. If you are really interesting to it, it will find not only evening time for you, but also possibility to leave in the Internet. If he has refused this offer more than two times, turn off the serious intentions - most likely, virtually walking spouse has got to you.

5. Never aspire to enter active correspondence with owners of the thin questionnaires, they would not render what signs on attention to you. In detail filled questionnaire - first sign of gravity of its bearer. Admissions and dots suggest about unconscientiousness or reserve - both that, and another not for you therefore as it appears only waste of time and forces.

Therefore: Choose only full questionnaires with real photos. And the more - the probability to see in real of with whom you correspond more than photos.

Well and the most important council will be - to get out of a virtual web as soon as possible. After all even madly long romantic lines will not replace warm and live intonation of a voice by phone, for example, which too much can tell about the interlocutor! Having spoken by few times to phone, it is possible to "risk", at last, and to meet - after all a meeting "face to face" will show, "who is who" and what intentions your interlocutor pursued.

My meeting with the spouse has occurred thus: having exchanged in the unique message phone numbers, we have phoned, next day have met and did not leave any more!

Therefore: Communicate, meet, fall in love and be vigilant, after all in the world so it is a lot of deceit and so few true virtues!...