If you the beginner on the Internet what associations if someone asks "not to torture you klava" at you first of all will arise, "to include as'ka" or "to give soap"? Not philosophising crafty, you simply decide, that it either an unsuccessful joke, or any code language. And in something will be right, for in language of fans of virtual dialogue "klava" name the keyboard, "as'ka" well-known program ICQ, and "soap" is only the address of your e-mail - E-mail.

Naturally, spending the most part of leisure time on the Internet, any, mainly the young man cannot give up to itself in attempt to find adherents or to fasten romantic acquaintances, that is most easier occurs in so-called chats. The chat (from English chat - "conversation") is such big virtual room where all talk with each other in the general window, and to the unsophisticated visitor first to follow conversation it is practically impossible. The quantity of chats in a network is improbably huge, their subjects too are not subject to the account because they are multiplied day by day. It is possible to open easily an own chat, but on attraction there visitors one day will leave not, or to search already existing, so to say, on your interests. There are chats to an age sign ("to Whom for 35"), on a geographical arrangement ("Pitermans - here!" ), chats on is musical-literary-cinema interests (to "Fans of hard fate", "Harry Potter"). There are chats with rather foggy names: "Through thorns to stars", "the Cat at a fireplace", "If it is necessary to you". And, of course, as a list wreath the chat "What for all it can serve? ." And the truth, what for? But about it later.

First of all at an input in a chat it is necessary to choose to itself "nick" (from English nickname - "nickname"). A range of use of words for "nicks" and flights of fancy of their owners as are wide, as well as a world wide web. Seldom, who takes in quality "nick" the present name - more often it is considered boring or in general virtual movetone. "Nicks" type "Cherry" and "Rose" too do not involve attention for it looks too lusciously. Sounds rather self-critical nick "most_unlucky" or nick "Death of Kolobok" is much better. Gets both to every possible popular executors and celebrated personalities. Hardly Breatny Spears, Zemfira, Gorbachev and the Hatch Besson in a course, what is the time their virtual doubles spend to networks. However the greatest attention visitors of chats who have for certain tried, choosing itself nicks - "the Prince of Darkness", "the Master of Grief", "Topic of the day", "involve Death in twilight tones".

Now we pass to the essence of virtual dialogue. People always search to themselves for the friends favourite, simply pleasant interlocutors at least for one evening and for this purpose at times are used by all accessible means, to one of which last years was the Internet. The quantity of the people spending the leisure-time in a network, now is really huge. Housewives leave the affairs and children for the sake of pair hours of virtual dialogue; family people come into chats, is visible, simple excite imagination; and some lonely people in general spend on the Internet almost all free time.

Certainly, to fasten acquaintances or even the virtual novel on the Internet very simply. The another matter - for what purpose it occurs, and it is how much serious you perceive. The matter is that more often the person gives out itself in a network to those whom he wishes to be, instead of those who it is actually. Such sensation, that people at times simply splash out the inveterate complexes in the Internet and sometimes it looks enough painfully. If, for example, someone has sent you the photo (and sometimes and a little!) Is does not mean at all, that it is that person with whom you so lovely communicate. The magnificent long-legged brunette of 25 years on whom half of chat was dry, has in actual fact appeared 32-year-old "a grey mouse". There is, that the clever and erudite woman submitting all by the intelligence and eccentricity, actually in a shower is simple... Wishes to be more beautiful and younger. And the unique place, where it is able to do it, is the Internet. Mother of three children who is wallowing in a life and resignedly taking down cavils of the husband, after midnight (it is direct as in a fairy tale), coming into a network, changes to unrecognizability and turns to the present woman-vamp on which conscience many the broken hearts - and hearts at people, unfortunately, are far not virtual and nerves too not from electronic wires. Or - you imagine a condition of the man which half a year communicated in it-lajn with 23-year-old Vika, appeared subsequently... 35-year-old Vlad? These are absolutely real cases from a virtual life, forgive for a pun. If you too have come to network to have a good time, you will be simply made laugh by a similar incident. But there are those who, unfortunately, seriously perceives relations on the Internet and often loses vigilance.

In general, this life in a network - not for people with non-stable mentality (though just such there loads and loads) and not for especially impressionable natures. Because not only above described "surprises" can deprive for a long time of you belief in people, but also transfer of mutual relations from virtual space in real at times happens very painful. People break from the places with one suitcase and rush to the virtual beloved with intention of a long and happy life that through month to remain practically in the street in another's city and without possibility to come back home. Certainly, the virtual world is very similar on real - because there too live people, same what surround us around - with all experiences, intrigues, lie, pleasures, feelings and emotions. But all the same eyes of the person at times will tell to you much more, than its most pathetic words printed in window ICQ.

Naturally, besides all these "horrors of our small town", meet in a network and very not ordinary persons with who will not be this empty chat idle talk, and there will be a high-grade and most interesting dialogue. Some meet favourite, and someone even creates further families. So all not so is terrible. Simply costs from too serious perception of a virtual life much more. As, however, and real, but in real all the same it is easier to orient or at least not to lose reference points. So switch off the computers is better and go at least to walk on a city. And I, perhaps, will a little more sit.